Team Playbook

Twelve lessons that turn any team activity into growth.


Every team — a robotics squad, a cast, a roster, a club — moves through the same four phases: it forms, it plans, it does the work, and it ends. Each phase has its own predictable dynamics, and each is a place where young people can actually develop, if someone is paying attention. The Team Playbook names twelve of those moments and gives you something to do with each. Use them in sequence for a new team, or pull a single lesson when the moment calls for it.


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This page is the overview. The Team Playbook — the complete facilitation guide — gives you every lesson in full: timings, materials, a 15-minute express version, facilitation notes, and the research behind each one. Free to download and use with your team.

12 lessons · 4 phases

Phase 1

Formation

becoming a team

The project is the playground. Who you become is the point.

Develops

S11 Knowing My Why S12 Living My Values S2 Growth Mindset L31 Life Seasons S8 Wonder

If the purpose of naming is unity, the process should create unity.

Develops

K22 Real Need Negotiation L12 One-Way vs. Two-Way Door S15 Making Others Shine S16 We Over Me L14 WRAP Decisions

Implicit norms cause conflict when they’re violated unknowingly.

Develops

K27 Safe Space Builder K7 Boundary Setting S16 We Over Me K24 Say What You Need L25 Small Moments Matter

The story we tell ourselves is almost always uglier than the truth.

Tool The Ladder of Inference

Develops

L2 From Fact to Story L23 What’s Really Going On S5 Reading Others L1 Scout Mindset S14 Heart at Peace
Phase 2

Planning

before the work begins

Constraints aren’t the enemy — ignoring them is.

Develops

K14 Control What You Can L10 What Could Go Wrong? S11 Knowing My Why L15 Good Enough vs. Best S9 Setback Stories

Yes to this means no to something else.

Develops

K13 Focus by Design L13 What’s at Stake? K10 Next Step Clarity L11 10/10/10 Rule S10 Grit
Phase 3

The Work

while the work happens

Hard on the problem + soft on people = growth.

Framework OIR — Observation, Impact, Request

Develops

K23 Taking Feedback K24 Say What You Need S15 Making Others Shine K18 Active Listening S14 Heart at Peace L26 Four Horsemen

Failure is information, not identity.

Tool After-Action Review (AAR)

Develops

K28 What Just Happened? S9 Setback Stories S2 Growth Mindset L17 Feedback Loops L1 Scout Mindset

Almost everyone is struggling alone with something someone else could help with.

Develops

K8 Asking for Help S16 We Over Me L6 Knowing What I Know K27 Safe Space Builder S14 Heart at Peace

Every task has one name.

Principle Match tasks to strengths; commit visibly

Develops

K10 Next Step Clarity S16 We Over Me K11 Checklist Habit S15 Making Others Shine K22 Real Need Negotiation L16 Stocks and Flows

Conflict avoidance isn’t kindness — it’s information suppression.

Framework Us vs. the problem, not me vs. you

Develops

L27 Heart at War vs. Peace K22 Real Need Negotiation L1 Scout Mindset K18 Active Listening L26 Four Horsemen S5 Reading Others K21 Repair Making
Phase 4

Completion

ending well

How you end determines what you carry forward.

Practice Reflect · Extract · Honor · Transition

Develops

K28 What Just Happened? S7 Gratitude L31 Life Seasons S11 Knowing My Why S9 Setback Stories S16 We Over Me